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Hey! I’m Tom. You seem to be my kind of woman!

Message from TomRocNY

Jan 17, 2014 – 4:02pm

Me:

Hi Tom, and what is your kind of woman?

Jan 17, 2014 – 4:07pm

Tom:

Someone who is educated, intelligent, enduring, adventurous, explorative, risk taking, fun loving, hard working, satisfying, free thinking, rebellious, super cute ;), intriguing, honest, loyal and kind. 

You just seem like the total package. Granted, I’m making quick assumptions and judgements to formulate my opinions however, I’ve been known to be a great judge of character.

Jan 17, 2014 – 4:18pm

Me:

I’m also very passionate about social justice activism, including anti-racism, and I noticed on your questions that you would “strongly prefer to go out with someone of your own skin color / racial background” which strikes me as a pretty racist statement.

Jan 17, 2014 – 4:22pm

Tom:

Don’t peg me as a racist because I have an ethnicity preference for my offspring. 

I’ve been with people of every color of the rainbow. It’s all pink in the middle however, I find the Caucasian skin tone to be most desirable. That’s a personal preference not racist slander. 

In fact, I’m a little offended you would try to use that against me after I provided you with a plethora of positive things I noticed about you.

Jan 17, 2014 – 4:30pm

Me:

1) Caucasian =/= white. You’re white, you’re not Caucasian. Most Caucasians are People of Color. 

2) You saying nice things does not negate racist statements. Have you ever thought why you find white women to be more desirable? Your preferences do not exist in a vacuum, they are not formed without outside influence from systemic racism. 

3) People of every color of the rainbow do not exist. Having sex with people of color does not make you less racist. Being in relationships with people of color do not make you less racist. Acting like having your racism pointing out to you is worse than actual racism makes you more racist. 

Kindly, fuck off.

Jan 17, 2014 – 4:47pm

Tom:

Your obsession with racism makes you a racist. 

Quit being a hypocritical, feministic prick, do us all a favor and get over yourself.

Jan 17, 2014 – 4:51pm

Me:

So, let me get this straight. Calling someone a racist is racist. Mentioning racism is racist. Being a racist is not racist. 

Wow. Such logic. Very truth.

Jan 17, 2014 – 4:53pm

Tom:

Get out of here you ugly troll.

Jan 17, 2014 – 5:00pm

Me:

 But… but… 10 minutes ago I was “super cute” xD

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